SURPRISED???? YEA THAT’S MY WIFYYYYY
That’s how we decided to drop Cataleya with grandma to have a time out with each other on Monday because 3 is a crowd…..
I decided to do this on Monday not because its her birthday neither mine or our wedding anniversary or a public holiday….just want to let her know how valuable and important she is to me..and everyday is a day to always celebrate each other …not until a special day….Even the bible says that “Today is the day that the Lord has made” not any special day…but everyday……a whole day full of fun….from salon to makeup, pedicure and manicure…to Amala joint, headdown to the post wedding photoshooot (lol) and the to the cienema….and then to the mall…I enjoyed every bit of the day….more than everyother day for the past 6years….she is even looking more beautiful …you won't know shes after 1(lmao)
6th year of marriage (not our wedding anniversary though ) its been God...
Have learnt so many things about marriage so far….
1. *EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*
Only God has no weakness, Every rose flower has its own thorn
2. *EVERY ONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*
No one is an angel, avoid digging one's past forgive and forget
3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES*
Marriage is not bed of roses every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of fire
4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*
We can never be equal, some will be far front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true
5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*
When you marry you enter in to a battle field. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*
There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is a hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily
7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU A COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*
He gives you, him or her inform of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire
8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, situation may change, so leave a room for adjustment
9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT*
Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind
10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*
There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving a sacrifice
Ayotundemi I will always celebrate and cherish you….
Written by oluwasegunfunmi adedeji